Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Sexy Halloween Ideas - Sex Tips for the Rest of Us

Why is Halloween so sexy? I can think of about a dozen reasons, but here are my top six:

1) Dressed up is sexy.
2) Eating candy is sexy.
3) Wearing makeup is sexy (with the proper lighting).
4) Pretending you’re someone else is sexy.
5) Being scared is sexy (being terrified is sexier!)
6) Even that cheap satin used in so many sexy Halloween costumes is sexy.

For some, Halloween is sexy because of the homesick thrill of childhood Halloweens; getting to stay up late, itinerant around the streets after dark, indulgence, make up, turning everything on its head. It’s ultimate freedom for one night.

As adults we can also use Halloween as an excuse to explore parts of our sexuality we might otherwise feel uncomfortable about. In this way Halloween can be a great sexual motivator and instigator, where one night of abandon can open up sexual doors that can be walked through the whole year round. Here are some sexy Halloween enthused ideas for scary sexy fun on October 31.

Halloween Dress Up

This may be the most clear, but it can also be the most fun part of exploring. I assurance you that everyone can learn something from dressing up as a gender other than the one they play during the day. And why go through life without ever once wielding Wonder Woman’s Lasso of Truth, or King Arthur’s Sword (are you getting the idea here?) There are plenty of places to find sexy Halloween costumes, but your imagination will always win out over store bought goodies.

Into It

The Halloween costume may be the excuse, but you’ve got to dig deep to turn a careful flirtation with edginess into a fully fledged sexual freak out. It’s the chance to explore all aspects of sexual role play, so don’t pass it up!

Play with your Food

Food is sexy, to be sure, and Halloween is all about food you get to eat with your hands. Whether you want to scare up a peeled grape/oozing eyeball massage, or a chocolate syrup/fake blood bath, or if you simply want to get hopped up on sugar and hop into bed, the childlike abandon of Halloween can be an excuse to bring some messy play back into your sex life. Always remember to play safe and wash your fruits and vegetables first!

Halloween Homemade Sex Toys

Some people spend weeks and months preparing their costume for Halloween. Others focus their interests on sex toys, preparing for a sexy Halloween in a different way, by creating Halloween themed sex toys. Not for everyone, to be sure, but I promise you’ll never look at a pumpkin the same again.

Cuddle up and get scared

The relationship between sex and horror has been the subject of innumerable articles, books, and television programs. Getting scared can get us hot, and, as one television documentary producer put it, when you come right down to it, what terrifies us more than our sexuality? Rent a scary movie, tell each other scary stories, and then give your lover comfort all night long.

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